Dating friend guy

30-Dec-2019 20:58

While in an ideal world we should be able to date whomever we want without it affecting those around us and our friends should be able to remain neutral, in the real world is just not so.Friendships are relationships and such entanglements come with emotions.Dating within the friend group of course works out very well for some people but my advice is ultimately to proceed with caution.If you can handle the casual hookup scenario where you will have to see him again for potentially years to come and possibly with other girls then go for it.

It is especailly rough when the person caught in the middle is close with both members of the relationship.First off, I use the word relationship loosely since we were not dating but we were more than friends who had sex.He was the only guy I’d ever let myself fall for since I am usually a guarded person and a casual dater.Now, since his friend and I are no longer speaking, he has to choose who goes to what event and feels uncomfortable having both of us at the same parties and occasions.While I am an adult and can fully handle seeing this guy, it is still an unfair situation to put my friend in and after his chaotic birthday he wants to avoid future drama at all costs.

It is especailly rough when the person caught in the middle is close with both members of the relationship.

First off, I use the word relationship loosely since we were not dating but we were more than friends who had sex.

He was the only guy I’d ever let myself fall for since I am usually a guarded person and a casual dater.

Now, since his friend and I are no longer speaking, he has to choose who goes to what event and feels uncomfortable having both of us at the same parties and occasions.

While I am an adult and can fully handle seeing this guy, it is still an unfair situation to put my friend in and after his chaotic birthday he wants to avoid future drama at all costs.

I hurt everyday, wracking my brain as to how he could not feel the same for me…how he could not love me too.